20 years old is way too young for a girl to get married! Girls these days at such an age don't know what they want out of life, still rely on their parents for everything! Still an Internet, mobile phone, TV junkie! Knows nothin but fashion, makeup and gossip; and you can't have a sensible conversation with her because she is still immature and arrogant for some girls!!!
A young woman is more apt to succeed at marriage once she starts working: she learns a lot and sees life differently, and appreciates her husband once married because she would b mature enough to avoid childish behaviour that we see in many married women nowadays!
If she's never had the chance to work and would just get married off university, then she is in for some problems, coz no one can b patient forever with an immature man or woman!!!!
Those who say 20 for girls are wrong! WAKE UP, THE TIMES HAVE CHANGED! WE ARE IN 2011 GOING ONTO 2012! NO LONGER IN 1970!!!!!!!
The same thing applies to young men aged between 20 and 25!
A young man is first still at university, probably has no part time job which means no sense of responsibility! Most of them at this age start getting wilder: girls, smoking, if they didn't smoke before, sex and drugs!!!
At 25, rarely we find a young man looking to settle down, coz the majority is still partying hard, changing girls like clothes, enjoying sex and drugs, following bad guys, you name it!!!!!
Starting from 26, a young man may start getting serious especially if cornered by his parents to get married! He starts saving up if he REALLY wants to get married, otherwise the player-type will continue onto playing and sowing their old oats (having wild fun) till they hit 30!
At 30, A man may be ready to settle down r not depending on his past: if he has not had enough fun yet, he would refuse to settle down just to make up for the lost fun,
Or,
If he has been a wild player and got probably tired of playing, he will start lookin for a virgin to marry via his mom!
Result
Women: from 25 Should b MATURE enough, if not don't marry her!
Men: from 27 Has already some money and a sense of responsibility! If IMMATURE, then u should look for a 30 y.o guy!
SOURCE: personal analysis
