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The family in Islam
And established Islam the family system on a sound basis consistent with the need for life and are consistent with the needs of people and their behavior, and considered the instinct of family instincts of self that God has given to man the Almighty said: (and that He created for you wives from among yourselves to repose in them and put between you affection and mercy) - Ar-Rum: 20 - This phenomenon, which mushroom upon rights since the composition of the verses of God and the blessing of the Great slaves.
Another thing interesting is that Islam seeks to make the Muslim family set a good example and good that provides the elements of leadership he says the story of the slaves: (who say: Our Lord Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring the delight of the eyes and make us righteous imam) - Al-Furqan: 74 - and most important rule of Education rules that exist in the education process by example, and the ideal of goodness and righteousness.
The cutecunt in research on genetics to the attention of Islam of that the marriage bond on the testing and inspection careful not to be a couple infected with certain disabilities shall apply mutatis to children arises in the community personnel maimed in their behavior and attitudes, and make Islam the father of her jurisdiction over it, and trap them in the selection of righteous husband for her careful that you choose a single pair of people with disabilities Vtger to the same calamity and misery, and afflict him seed Talhp cause you distress and grief of their society, it is natural that it does not improve the selection of righteous husband for her, they did not know of life only dandruff, a control on her fiance shown by her of modern artificial and promises stunning, and Inmgah their messages gram, or to his good image and beauty and decoration fashion attractive is emphatically not know the cunning of life and slag folk, and Kidd, lovers, did not know lying promises, hypocrisy reigns, and did not grasp that a happy marriage that achieves her dreams and hopes can only be combined if a man self-Sharif cream creation, sincere faith, so that means their affairs and their rights, which give birth to offspring who will be the apple of her eye in the event of her old age and old age ... This is what he wants Islam to them.
In any case, the family system, enacted by Islam is based on a foundation of awareness and depth to be happy by the family, and leads to cohesion and coherence in terms of physiological, psychological, and social, so enjoy everyone of them, and finds in the shadows of clemency, compassion, tenderness and stability.
Islam is very keen that the marriage bond, which is the first nucleus of the family to love, understanding and harmony, a perfect marriage, which meant (Hamilok Alice) said: (not the perfect marriage really on the compatibility of desire only, but based on the Union's Lusty, based upon a deep affection become closer to the arcade days and include various aspects of life, an agreement tastes, feelings and tendencies, an agreement on a common life, as may be required by the burdens of parenthood). (Sex education: p. 28)
This is what is desired by Islam in the Association of nationality to be perfect, and is based on the close of love and understanding educational processes leading up to the successful impact in the formation of a healthy society.
I proceeded to Islam all the curricula of living aimed at reforming the family and the growth and prosperity of her life, Vni House special attention, and proceeded to ethics common among family members, and to make each and every one of them special duties towards his family members, and which calls for interdependence, as well as to have Dkhalp positive in the configuration Educational ... We need to display that, for brevity.
Importance of the House
The House of the utmost importance in education, it is the way check the social environment impacts education in children, Thanks to him transmitted to them the traditions of their nation, and systems, and defined by congenital, beliefs and ethics and virtues, and its history, and much of what is made of heritage in the various affairs, the according to the house in the performance of this letter solemn achieved the social environment effects eloquent in education, but mess up the house, the child inevitably corrupts, does not have any personality. The house is more of a role in a child's life, it is natural source of sympathy and compassion, SQ derives his quiet reassuring .. (Factors of Education: p. 90, Education: p. 87, Family and Society: p. 19)
The friends of Islam by the special attention and ordered to prevail when the love and affection, and leave the cost, and to avoid abandonment of words and time, the so impact deep in the adjustment of the child and, if not reconcile House to perform its task, the child becomes deviations serious, such eliminating the feeling of security, and destroy his confidence himself, and other things that the text of the psychologists.
And making Islam Mnahja common to all family members, and invited them to apply to the realities of their lives even shadow them happiness, and all living in the bliss of Wharf, namely:
One love and affection:
Called for Islam to rule of love, friendship and harmony among family members and Ijtenboa all that disturbs the life and living, and is the responsibility primarily on the women they could transfer the house to the kindergarten or hell, if done their job, and sponsored it from the literature were outstanding insured has the effect of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) that a person came and said to him: I have a wife if Tlguetni entered, and if Ciatni out, and if she saw me she worried what you care? If you are interested in to ensure the sustenance by someone else, and if you care about are the pants Fsadk God.
Unbeaten (peace be upon him) expressed his admiration for them and paid tribute and said: (being announced by the heaven, and tell her: You are working from the workers of God). (Morals: c 1, p. 229)
If committed to women under the auspices of her husband, and led his rights and duties of affection between them and spread the deep bond of love between family members which leads to the proper configuration of a successful education.
He urged Islam to cooperate with each other on the affairs of life, and manage the home and live all in an atmosphere of mutual friendship and cooperation, and responsibility lies at the head of the family, a husband, he asked to Islam than that is caring for his wife and share with them in the affairs of his home, The Prophet (may Allah bless him and his family) who service the house with his wives, and said: (serve your spouse charity) and Imam Ali (peace be upon him) participate friendly lady of the worlds Fatima Zahra (peace be upon her) in the housekeeping and cooperate with them in his administration, it is natural that it creates in the hearts of children a spirit of noble emotions that are the most important elements of self-education in sound.
Three mutual respect:
He urged Islam on mutual respect, and taking into account the Arts among the members of the family For the great that is kind to small and small that the homage to the great reverence, the impact of the Prophet (peace be upon him) that he said in a phrase and his commandments Assembly: (Vlietef Kbergm on Sgerkm, and revered Sgerkm Kbergm ..) that take into account these rules create in the home atmosphere of virtue and values of dignity, which had to the development of behavior and complete the same child, and send the petition to start in the fields of cooperation with his family, his community, has been proven in the science of psychoanalysis that the values of children's religious and moral but grow in the vicinity of the family. (How to help your children at school: p. 193)
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